You know the feeling when your baby is having birthday, it is the last day before that, and you still have nothing in mind for them. Clock is not waiting for you to get out of the office and buy something super cool for them. Pressure is choking you. We do not need no disappointments! This happens to me almost every year, and I have a quick and easy solution! Birthday sex! This is a surely cheap gift that you can prepare in the very last minute.
How Does That Work?
Of course, if birthday sex is your present, you have probably realized that this is a present for you, too. However, sexogy specialist from the Colombian University give us the not really surprising but still adequate advise that this is a surprise first of all for your partner, as we sometimes forget about this. They advise us to think how we are going to make this specific moment of intimacy more special than any other one in any other night of the year.
You may want this night to be the beginning of something new and want to explore some new sexual practices or kinks. This is a great idea because it will definitely bring some fresh air both in your sexual life and relationship! On the other hand, something not to forget is that there is a reason for the old-time favorites to be considered such. Lift her handling from the roof of the room, but there shall be some vanilla sex if she loves having it, for example, in the missionary position. Both of these are possible, and this is important. You may want to do something super crazy but is it really possible, and even if it is, is it really appropriate. We count everything that you do not have mutual consent about, and everything that is way too much for most people outside as kind-of-inappropriate. Finally, you can garnish your present with some kinky BDSM fetish practices. Also, manage to realize whether this is more of a surprise, or more of a new experience for both of you, which insists on some mental and physical preparation. Once again, anything that involves consent and mental preparation is not okay for a surprise. Make sure the party does not die when the surprise is open!
Things To Do With Birthday Sex
Erotics
If you want to go for the more vanilla snowflakes things, then I would totally recommend you to go for the aromatic massage oils and body wax. This can be a whole new experience for your senses! A good erotic sensual massage with a little nerve play and tension grading can be super turning on and relaxing at the same time!
Build it up!
Tension is not only built with touches and actions. You can build it up from distance. If your partner is at work, for instance, then go for some sexting. Talk dirty to them, send them nudes, ask them dirty questions like “Do you know what I want to do to you? I want to fuck you in every single room in the house again and again!”
Cake time!
Okay, cake is probably not the right word, but what you surely have to eat some sweets. Why not from your partner’s body? Get some Nutella and splash it all over your baby! Crumble some biscuits over it, and top it up with some whipped cream. Voila! Birthday sex cake! Make it hot and liquirish!
Spoil them!
As you have already guessed, the sex is the star of the night. On the other hand, this does not mean that this shall be the basic of the night. You might want to do something special for your partner that will make them feel exclusively fine. I would recommend you a hot tub, a glass of good wine, a box of chocolates, flowers and aroma candle. This will make them relax and really enjoy their self before you
Overall, Birthday sex is a great inexpensive, easy to prepare and mutually pleasing present for your babe! You can vary depending on your partner’s preferences-late night sex, morning sex, public sex, office sex, bathroom sex…It is all up to the both of you! The only thing you have to do is be creative, crafty and generous in what your loved one enjoys! Now, it is time to blow the candles! And not only